Hey Readers, it’s Preslaysa (aka The Literary Mama). I’m pleased to welcome today’s Marriage & Motherhood Mondays guest blogger today: Jody Hedlund. Jody’s latest release The Doctor’s Lady is available now!
CONTEST ALERT!! Jody is giving away a copy of The Doctor’s Lady to one lucky reader. To enter, leave your name and email address in the comment box for a chance to win. Winner announced on Oct 15th. Contest is open to U.S. residents only.
Today, Jody provides us with eight great tips for organizing our writing time with family life and homeschooling!
Here’s Jody…
8 Tips For Organizing Writing Time
Not many of us can magically make more writing time appear in our days. As much as we’d like to wave a wand and change minutes into hours, we’re often stuck with what we’ve got.
I can whine and complain about how little I have, especially of uninterrupted time. And to be honest, I find myself whining a lot more than I’d like.
I struggle every day to find time to fulfill my ever-increasing writing responsibilities and balance them with the full time job of mothering and teaching my children.
For me it boils down to organizing my time. A friend told me, “The reason you can manage all that you do is because you organize your time well.” She went on to say that because of all I’m doing, she was inspired to squeeze quilting back into her busy life.
So, how do we organize our time better? Here are 8 tips:
1. Maximize the time we have. We can’t wait to write until we have an office, until it’s perfectly quiet, or until we have uninterrupted time. When our designated writing time comes around every day, we have to sit down and put our fingers on the keyboard for each and every precious minute we have. In other words, we need to stop making excuses and just write.
2. Minimize distractions. Yes, we need to stop making excuses, but we can also ruthlessly eliminate as many distractions as we can. No, we can’t lock our children in the closet during writing time, but we can shove our internet connection there, keep the TV off, and have our coffee and snack at hand so that we have no reason to get up once we’re down.
3. Mark daily or weekly goals and meet them. At the back of my plot notebook, I mark down my daily goals. Before I start my writing each morning, I jot down the word count I hope to accomplish. On those days when the words are slow, it’s especially helpful to have that written goal because it keeps me going, even when I’m tempted to close up shop.
4. Multiply the momentum. There are times when the words trickle like a dry stream and times when they flow like a rushing river. We should write through both but capitalize on those times when the momentum is high. If I can occasionally have extended writing time, my muse has more opportunity to gain speed and stay with me through those dry times.
5. Model seriousness toward work time. If we demonstrate a level of commitment and seriousness toward our writing, eventually others will follow suit. I prioritize my daily writing time. When I stick to my schedule day in and day out, my family can see that I take my work seriously. Because I respect my writing time, they do too.
6. Mobilize support from family and friends. Maybe family and friends won’t “get” our writing, but the first step is sharing openly about the importance of writing in our lives. I’ve explained to my children why I’m passionate about writing and given them concrete ways they can help me preserve my writing time. My husband tries to help me carve out more time. From time to time, friends watch my children so that I can write without interruption.
7. Make sacrifices. We can’t do everything, even the good things. I’ve made a commitment to work in my upstairs office every Saturday for extended and uninterrupted writing time. That means I’ve had to say no to fun activities because I’m dedicated to keeping my work hours.
8. Muster self-discipline. The foundation of productive writing time is self-discipline. I push myself to write something every day of the week (except Sundays). Even when I’m sick or tired, I continue to write through it. A little bit every day, eventually adds up to a completed book.
Summary: If we waved a magic wand and suddenly found ourselves with more time, would we really use it to increase our writing time? Let’s be honest. It’s all too easy to fill extra time with other things, to squander it, to let it slip through our fingers.
When we start to complain about the little time we have for writing, maybe first we should ask ourselves, are we good stewards of the time we already have?
Are you a good steward of your writing time? What are ways you’ve learned to manage your writing time? What has or hasn’t worked for you? I’d love to hear your tips!
© Jody Hedlund 2011
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Jody Hedlund is an award-winning historical romance novelist and author of the best-selling book, The Preacher’s Bride. She received a bachelor’s degree from Taylor University and a master’s from the University of Wisconsin, both in Social Work. Currently she makes her home in Michigan with her husband and five busy children. Her next book, The Doctor’s Lady releases in September 2011. You can read more of her writing advice on her writer’s blog: http://jodyhedlund.blogspot.com/
CONTEST ALERT!!
Jody is giving away a copy of The Doctor’s Lady to one lucky reader. To enter, leave your name and email address in the comment box for a chance to win. Winner announced on Oct 15th. Contest is open to U.S. residents only.
Jody Hedlund says
Thank you so much for hosting my guest post today! I appreciate your gracious hospitality! 🙂
nina dysvick says
That is too true!!! I dont write havent in a long time.. but i do have my card business.. and sometimes i think i need to lock them up.. but i really dont. Thanks for telling me its ok to take time for myself. And that i need to have everything @ my fingertips! Epiphany!! Coffee, snack and a sign that reads:Mommie is working take a number and come back only if something broken or bleeding! 🙂 jk lol
Tamara says
Hey, thanks for this post. I’m on track, with the 8 suggestions for making my writing time more organized, except I don’t set goals. I write when I can and am grateful for what gets written. I think it would put more pressure on me (in an already PRESSURE-FILLED LIFE!) to add one more expectation. I’m an SOTPer, so you can see why I think that way! LOL! The suggestions were great. I enjoyed this so much, and would love to have Jody’s new book.
Tamara tamarawrites (at) hotmail (dot) com
Jeannie Campbell, LMFT says
Hey Preslaysa! I trust you got your books from the hotel business office in as timely a manner as I did. 🙂
These are great tips, and I don’t take them lightly, given how many children Jody manages! I’ve only got one, but it’s still difficult!
Jeannie
charactertherapist (at) hotmail (dot) com
Katy Lee says
As a home-schooling mom and writer always struggling to find the time to write, I totally appreciate your words of wisdom.
Thank you and blessings to you!
Katy Lee
katylee@cox.net
Carrie Fancett Pagels says
Great suggestions! Thanks Preslaysa and Jody!
angela nicole chesnut says
I would love to win.
Lyndee H says
Minimize distractions – during the day, that’s a hard one for me. I’ve countered the phone calls, door bells, and seemingly endless errands that interrupt me during the daytime by writing from midnight to four in the morning. I can write twice or three times more during those four hours than I can in eight full hours during the day.
Thanks for the tips and reminders! It’s always helpful to refocus, and your ideas will help me do just that.
Best,
Lyndee
spooler(at)comcast(dot)net
Sheri Salatin says
Wow, thanks for sharing. These are some really good points! It’s so true. We always have time for what we really want to do most. 🙂
Please enter me into the drawing. I’m dying to read this one!!
sheri(dot)salatin(at)gmail(dot)com
Jackie Smith says
Am very anxious to read this book….just my type! Please enter me. Thanks!!
jackie.smith[at]dishmail[dot]net
Gwendolyn Gage says
I do want to read this book! I’ve heard so many good things about it. Thanks for this opportunity!